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  • Engagement Pictures: Part I

    We finally got our engagement pictures back on Friday. I've gotta say that I'm absolutely thrilled with them. Our photographer is named Abby Jiu. She's a local photographer that does a lot of work here in the DMV area. She has a blog too (see here) with a lot of her work displayed (it's definitely worth a visit; she's done a lot of amazing things). A few weeks ago, she walked around downtown Frederick (my hometown) with us. Frederick is a pretty historical place with a lot of cool buildings and a lot of history (particularly Civil War history). The Architect and I can't wait to see what she does for our wedding.





















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  • Philly Pictures

    I promised and here they are. Here are the pictures from our trip to Philly; I so want to go back!


    The Architect modeling the latest in Ben Franklin eyeglass fashion.


    Here's a picture of the Liberty Bell with part of Independence Hall back behind it.


    It's always been amazing to me at how small the Liberty Bell is in real life.


    We wandered some of the side streets near the Independence Mall and came across this fire station who had an emblem of Ben Franklin wearing a fire hat. I love it!


    This fountain is on the outside of the Betsy Ross house which we toured while we were in town. It's a quick tour but pretty interesting. No one really knew that Betsy Ross made our flag in her own time. Had she be caught making our flag, the British could have tried her with treason!


    I thought these were kind of cute. They had mock ups outside the Diana dresses exhibit of "We the People" magazine, a parody of People Magazine. The front pages were filled with significant political stories throughout history.


    This was my favorite. I love TR!

    Things that we don't have pictures of:
    • Princess Diana dresses: they wouldn't let you take pictures in the exhibit. I loved this exhibit! I've always been fascinated with the British royal family and Princess Diana.
    • Fork: We ate at a really, really amazing restaurant while we were there on the recommendation of one of my co-workers who is a Philly native. I had butternut squash risotto topped with gorgonzola and pepitas (sort of like pine nuts really). We both loved the risotto so much that the Architect made a version last week for dinner with goat cheese. For those that don't know, I have an obsession with goat cheese. It was wonderful. The Architect had hanger steak with potatoes. It was absolutely amazing. We sat at the bar since the restaurant was so crowded. The bartender was really wonderful. We got a apple tartlet to split for dessert. The bartender gave us a glass of port to go with dessert. I've never had port before but it was really enjoyable with the apple-ish sweetness of our dessert.
    I have off today for Veteran's Day. I'm trying to get some writing done for school but am having major trouble concentrating... grr. I guess I should get back to that....

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  • Shopping Mall Vultures

    I like shopping and I like buying gifts but I really hate venturing to the mall to buy Christmas gifts. I’ve gotten a little bit of a late start because I’ve been quite busy between work and school. On Saturday, I was able to get a little bit done but not without some added frustration. I met with my wedding planner at a bookstore in a big mall over in VA. After we got finished talking and going over a few things, I ventured into the mall. I guess others had the same idea about shopping on a Saturday as I did. The mall was pretty crowded. One negative. I hate, hate, hate crowds

    The second negative is that since the downturn in the economy, I’ve noticed that salespeople have seemingly turned into vultures. The people in the kiosks in the middle of the walkways practically jump you as you walk by. If you even more than glance at an item, you have salespeople that want to get all up on you to get you to buy stuff.  

    I wandered into Teavana, a store that sells tea and tea accoutrements like it sounds. I had this wonderful idea to get my grandma some items to make loose leaf tea because she liked it so much when we went to tea a few weeks ago while she was visiting. I was practically pounced on by this short cashier. She bombarded me with the usual questions (i.e. what are you looking for today? Have you seen <insert new item here>?). I sort of mumbled something incoherent at her. I never know what to say to salespeople and besides, I knew exactly what I wanted. I was carrying a big bag from other things that I had bought already. Pushy Cashier Lady as she in the midst of warbling at me about the 50 bazillion kinds of tea they had says “Oh, what did you get for lunch???” and then proceeds to take her fingers and PEEK INTO MY BAG. For serious? This stranger who is trying to sell me a bunch of stuff wants to see what else I’ve bought. I said “Excuse me!” and she left me alone. I gathered up the items I was going to buy and got out of there only to be bombarded by kiosk people… I can’t win.

    I understand that these people are probably being paid on commission but I’ll tell you one thing, if someone is bothering me, I’m probably not having a good time shopping. If I’m not having a good time shopping, I’m going to be less likely to want to spend money wherever it is that I’m being bothered. Yeesh. I wish I could write that on a sign and wear it to the mall…grr!!!

  • What Xanga Means to Me...

    The ever lovely Seedsower put up a post about what Xanga means to her and tagged many of us to post on what Xanga means to us.

    This really couldn’t have come at a better time for me. Last week, I had the idea for the whole International Xanga Friend Day. I thought it would be kind of a fun thing to do and really didn’t expect that it would take off the way that it did. It did take off though. I had many, many people putting up the names of their friends. Some friends thought their friends just needed some love. Some friends thought their friends could use some extra traffic. Some friends knew their friends were having a rough time of it and could use some kind words, thoughts, or prayers. All I was doing was giving out kind words and comments and while I’m a big believer in that every little bit counts, I really didn’t think that either of those items would be in such high demand. That’s one thing that I love about being here. There are so many wonderful people here who are willing to do things for others, even if it’s just a small thing.  I like that I’m not alone in believing that I am not alone in believing that the little things in life can actually account for a lot. There’s a sense of community about this place that I haven’t seen duplicated in any other blogosphere.

    I have met some really fantastic people here and I would list them all but that would take up so much room. Hopefully through the words that I’ve written in the past to them or about them, they are already very much aware of who they are. I’ve even had the opportunity to meet several Xangans in real life through two Xanga meets (DC people: when are we doing that again?) and they were all pretty amazing.

    Writing has always been cathartic for me. I feel like I communicate better through writing than speaking. I think there is a lot of like-minded individuals on that matter that find themselves on Xanga. It’s pretty cool in that respect.

    I’ve been on Xanga in various incarnations since 2002 and I can’t see myself leaving. This place is too good to let go of.

     

  • Ft. Hood Shootings

    I’m pretty freaked out by what happened at Ft. Hood yesterday. I’m praying and thinking about all of the victims, their families, and everyone else on the base as they are probably pretty freaked out right now as well. One would think that in someplace like a military installation you would be just about as safe as you could be. There’s tons of security. My hometown has a very small army base in it and when I was in high school, I was dating a guy whose dad was in the military and their family lived on the base so I had to go through the front gate security all the time. 9/11 happened while I was in high school and while I was dating this guy and I noticed how much tighter security got. There were times where the MPs had to check my trunk and take a mirror to the underside of my car. This was to get on a little tiny base where most of the stuff going on was science-y type things. It’s been awhile since I’ve been on an actual military base but I know that even still to walk on to the Naval Academy in Annapolis, you have to be frisked and go through a metal detector. So they keep the bad guys from outside out but you never really stop to think that there might be bad guys inside already…

    I just feel so much pain for the families affected by this. I don’t have any immediate family in the military but I have tons and tons of extended family that are in the military (including one who was apparently at Ft. Hood yesterday, but he’s okay; thank God!). I have cousins that at this point have deployed to war zones several times and it’s been scary for the entire family. So I have to imagine that there already has to be a huge amount of stress in immediate families where there is even the smallest chance that a family member could deploy. So already these affected families were probably dealing with a lot of extra stress before this ever even happened.

    It just makes me sick to think about this happening. People should be able to feel safe in places like military installations. These are the people that are protecting our country!!! They have a pretty stressful job already without this other stuff going on.

    I’m going to be very interested to see what the investigation uncovers about the shooter. He was in the military getting ready to deploy for Iraq. He was a psychiatrist that had been up here in DC at Walter Reed (the army hospital where many war veterans with war wounds are treated).

    Hopefully what will come out of this whole mess is more of a focus on the psychiatric health of our troops before and especially after they deploy…. I really hope.

     

  • International Xanga Friend Day

    I have a lot of credits (over 31,500) and they're burning a hole in my interwebz pocket. I was thinking about having some kind of contest but I don't have enough time right now to oversee a contest and I also couldn't think of a good contest to have. But I do want to do something with these credits. Here's where you, the lovely people of Xanga come in.

    I'm declaring today (and every subsequent day until either I fulfill my promise or until my credits run out) International Xanga Friend Day.

    Here's what I'm thinking: you leave a comment here with the username of a fellow Xangan who could use some cheer and friendship through comment and mini love. Maybe it's a good Xanga friend. Or maybe it's someone just starting out here. Submit anyone you want.  It's even better if you can think of a specific entry that you feel needs some more love. Once you comment me with the usernames or entries, I'll visit that person or the specific entry you link me to and give that person a mini.

    It's not much but I think this could be fun. Yay!

    And I don't do this often but I would greatly appreciate if you would rec this entry. I want as many people as possible to participate!

  • Beating Myself Up

    The weekend was good. I have pictures of Philly to share once I get them uploaded. Philadelphia was really wonderful. I didn’t realize how close it was to us. I would like to go back again and explore the city a little bit more.

    I only have a few more weeks of school left and I am eagerly awaiting the semester to end. Last night, I was thrown into a little bit of an uproar when I found out about a group assignment in Statistics that is due Tuesday (yes, as in tomorrow). It’s not a big deal in the scheme of things. I’ll get it done tonight when I get home and it will be fine. I was just kind of beating myself up because I hate not being prepared. The Architect says I'm being too hard on myself but I hate feeling like I'm behind. Although I suppose I can’t beat myself up too much; neither of the other two members in my group knew about the assignment either. Sigh… On top of that, the group has been really slow to get their parts of a paper that we have to turn in tomorrow finished. It’s frustrating.

    My classes end on Dec. 6th so I only really have to make it through another month and then I’ll have two months off before the spring semester begins. I’m looking at that light at the end of the tunnel with eager anticipation and trying to focus on getting to the end of the semester.

    In other news, I realized that I really need to get cracking on my Christmas shopping. I haven’t done any of it!!! Eek!

    How do you focus when you’re feeling down?

     

  • Throwing in the Towel

    I'm out of writing steam today. Today was the last day for the Scavenger Hunt challenge set up by the lovely MoonCatBlue (check her out; she's truly a talented writer). I didn't complete every challenge but I got really close (I didn't do 7 of the challenges).

    Here is a list of the challenges I did not complete:

    9. Write a travel Haibun
    12. Create something in which a lobster is a symbolic centerpiece. - mode of creation open
    19. Create a piece to go with a favorite song.
    25. Revise and/or choose 3 old poems, prose or photography pieces. Research and muster the courage to submit them to a publishing entity.
    26.  Create something in which death is a central theme. -mode of creation open
    27. Create a post incorporating the following: butterfly, sawdust, Mack truck, blood, ocean- mode of creation open
    36. Go ahead. Write a sex scene. You know you want to.

    I had fun though! It was nice to write some fiction and poems. That's definitely not something that I do very much of.

    This weekend, we are off to Pennsylvania. First to visit the Architect's parents and second to go see Princess Diana dresses in Philadelphia. Yes, I'm dragging the Architect to see Princess Diana dresses but he's getting to go to a gun show in November. I'll probably go to but guns for Diana dresses worked like a charm for a bargaining chip :)

    Happy Halloween to everyone!

     

  • OMG Boobs!

    This morning, the Architect and I drove into work together. We usually listen to a morning show on the local rock station. It can be a little raunchy sometimes but they talk about some pretty interesting topics. This morning the topic d’ jour was one that really got me steaming mad. They were talking about how one of the local news stations did a story about getting breast exams to check for breast cancer and they showed a young woman getting a full breast exam and you saw everything, nipples and all. I saw this report last night and wasn’t offended at all. I have boobs and I rather like my boobs and understand the importance of performing self-exams on my boobs every month so in case something goes awry, I can try to catch it early. I thought it was really wonderful that the news showed a full breast exam because I’m sure that there are a lot of people out there who either don’t know how to do a good breast exam or don’t do it every month so I saw it as a good reminder for everyone.

    I also thought that it was rather brave of the young woman in the story who got the breast exam done. She was in her late 20s and detected breast cancer through a self-exam and felt that it was important for other people to know about getting regular breast exams. While I don’t see breasts as being dirty or shameful or anything like that, I think it would take a lot of guts to show your boobs on tv for the whole DMV area to see even if it was for a good purpose like this.

    What made me mad this morning is that the radio show host was essentially making fun of the woman’s breasts this morning. She was only an A cup and had an inverted nipple and he said that took away from what the news program was trying to show because her boobs were small and he thought they looked weird. He thought that it would be better to show someone with bigger breasts. I thought that it was a pretty ridiculous conjecture. Some people have small breasts, some have big one. Nipples can be inverted or not inverted. All breasts are different but all need to be checked every month for lumps regardless of their look or size.

    The news show was not meant to be a sexual show. Anyone who thought that is pretty dumb. Breast cancer is serious business. The person showing her breasts on tv was doing it for a good purpose and it shouldn’t matter what her boobs look like. She’s going through treatment now for her breast cancer and felt it was important for other people to know how to do self-exams.

    What do you think about this?

     

  • Long Into the Night (SH 20 + 22)

    No one has lived in the old Abbott house for about 20 years. I sometimes sit on my porch and look at the ruins of the house from across the street. You can still tell it was a house but it amazes me how relatively quickly nature has come back to take what was once hers. It was said to be haunted as most abandoned houses in Small Town, USA are said to be in some way, shape or form.  It was an old Victorian style house that probably would have been very pretty at one point but now the pointed slope of the eaves and the roof seemed to add to its ghostly story. It was the type of house that teenagers led each other to every Halloween in hopes of causing mischief and scaring their friends.

    As all good ghost stories start out, there was a family who suffered a tragedy. This family had a mother, father and five sons.  I grew up in Culbert as well but was several years younger than the sons and never really knew them. Mrs. Madison was a socialite in the small town of Culbert or at least as much as a socialite one can be in a town of a mere 1,000 people. She was a glamorous lady who had grown up in Boston and moved to Culbert to raise her family. Mr. Madison ran a very successful men’s clothing store on Main Street. Everyone knew the family and liked them.  Although everyone in town pitied the Madisons for having so many sons and no daughters to balance the load, the Madison brothers were good boys who grew up to be good men. Michael, Eric, Joseph, Sam, and John were inseparable even with their differences in ages. When Mrs. Madison wanted Michael, the oldest to take horn lessons, the other four begged to take horn lessons too.  Mr. Henney taught all five boys to play the horn.  All five took to the instrument like fish to water and could be heard practicing all the time on their front porch.

    Years passed and they got good enough to begin playing in the Front Street Restaurant, the only fancy restaurant in town. Then the Great War broke out. Michael, Eric, Joseph, and Sam all signed up to fight. John was too young and still hadn’t finished high school. 1,2,3, 4 brothers shipped off to the unknown to fight the good fight while John stayed home.

    It didn’t take too long before word got around town that Joseph had been killed somewhere in Europe. His body wasn’t recovered but it was assumed that he had died in an attack in the trenches. Mr. and Mrs. Madison were devastated. Mr. Madison closed up his shop. Mrs. Madison became a recluse. John finished high school and tried to sign up but by that point the war was about to end and the army wasn’t taking new recruits for battle. Michael came home. Then Sam. Then Eric. The family was together but things were not the same. The boys withdrew. They never returned to their gigs at Front Street. Things never went back to normal.

    Every night, the four brothers, minus the brother lost to the war, played their horns late into the night. They played the same mournful tune each night. Time passed and eventually Mr. and Mrs. Madison passed away within a week of each other. Each brother took their own turn in passing and each lived in the house until the day they died. John was the last brother in the house and after he passed, no one in Culbert could bring themselves to live in the house or destroy the house. It is said that on a quiet night even now, if you listen closely, you can still hear the four brothers playing their horns for their lost brother. It’s as clear as day if I sit in the rocking chair on my porch. I can hear them even now.

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