Month: July 2009

  • Dreaming of that Dirty Water

    When I got to work on Monday, we were told to go home after a few hours because the air conditioning in the entire building had blown. When you work in a very tall building, things have a tendency to get sticky really quickly. All of the power in the building had to be turned off in order for the problem to be fixed which means the building had to be closed. Our building has been closed since Monday morning and I find myself wanting to go back to work and I blame this irrational want on it being midterms week. Therefore my midterms have been staring at me the entire time that I have been home. I’ve been getting them done as well as spending a bit of time at the gym and lounging by the pool. I just hope I can go to work tomorrow.

    The Architect found awesome plane tickets to go to Boston in September. I’m excited. After DC, Boston is my favorite city. We’re going for a long weekend. It’ll be nice.

    What’s new in your world?

    By the way, I’m loving the book that I’m reading now. It’s fantastic.

  • In Retrospect

    Today, Robert McNamara passed away. I can definitely say that he is a politician that I looked up to. Not necessarily for what he did as a politician but for his humility and his willingness to admit mistakes. Both are qualities that are not usually found in the political world.

    About a year ago, I posted about his book entitled “In Retrospect.” It is truly one of the most prolific and most honest books by a politician that I have ever read. Below is the post:

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    I just finished the most amazing book today entitled In Retrospect by Robert S. McNamara. If the name sounds familiar, you probably pay some attention to politics. McNamara was the Secretary of Defense under both JFK and LBJ. If you are familiar with the book, you probably took either a 20th century history or politics class. I found out this book in one of my undergrad classes when we watched a documentary called “The Fog of War.” In this book, McNamara lists eleven lessons learned from the Vietnam War. These lessons were based on mistakes that McNamara felt were made.

    Here is how the book starts out:
    “This is the book that I planned never to write.
             Although pressed repeatedly for over a quarter of a century to add my views on
    Vietnam to public record, I hesitated for fear that I might appear self-serving, defensive, or vindictive, which I wished to avoid at all costs. Perhaps I hesitated also because it is hard to face one’s mistakes. But something changed my attitude and willingness to speak. I am responding not to a desire to get out my personal story but rather to a wish to put before the American people why their government and its leaders behaved as they did and what we may learn from that experience.”

    Yes, McNamara does not seek to point out other’s mistakes but he is willing to point out his own. For someone in government to do this is amazing, but think about, how many of us are willing to point out our mistakes? Our flaws? When we should have done something differently? When we should have said something differently?

    Unfortunately, the answer is not many of us. We are happy to continue to defend our mistakes or worse yet, pretend they never occurred.

    This book came out in 1994. Discussion of the mistakes made in Vietnam continue to this day. It may be arguable to say that they have increased in the wake of the Iraq War as many comparisons are made. To admit mistakes on something so controversial takes bravery.

    If someone could admit mistakes about something so big, why is it hard for us to admit mistakes in our own lives?

  • Sunday Stroll

    We’ve lived in the county that we live in for a little over a year now. Because the Architect and I are pretty busy people, it’s been a little difficult to explore our new surroundings. It’s also a lot easier to simply take the Metro into DC and see all of the stuff the city has to offer but since the Metro is still having issues, we were boycotting it this weekend.

    We went to Brookside Gardens in Wheaton, MD. It’s a county park not too far away from us. With it being a county park, I wasn’t sure what to expect but I certainly did not expect to be wowed. I really was though. What a beautiful place to walk around! I have pictures!


    One of the fountains in the gardens.


    They had a great rose garden with miles of roses. They smelled so good.


    Another fountain. This one actually sounded like rain.


    A big rose.


    Bees!


    Another fountain.


    I believe this is a dahlia.


    This pavilion is actually on an island. So pretty.

    This was a great place for a Sunday stroll. Afterward, we drove to Trader Joes and loaded up on some goodies. I love that place so much. My biggest score was some peaberry coffee. It’s a special coffee from Central America (typically El Salvador) where the coffee beans are super tiny. They make a great cup of coffee!

    This weekend was exactly what I needed to recharge!

    What did you do this weekend?

     

     

  • Good Riddance to Bad Rubbish (with update)

    I haven’t felt much like writing lately. I blame a combination of school and the Metro. The Metro still hasn’t been running correctly and there are still speed-restrictions going on which means service is super slow. Because of the slow service, the trains have been super crowded. Today is the first morning that I have had a relatively regular commute. Believe me, my nerves are pretty frayed and I am looking forward to the 3 day weekend. I have absolutely no plans and our pool is calling my name.

    A person in my school group finally dropped the class… after 6 weeks because she said it was too much work. Everyone in the group got a whiny email from her saying she couldn’t keep up with the work and the professor was not very flexible with deadlines. She wasn’t doing any work anyhow so I say good riddance. I know there are some people whose parents force them to go to undergrad but grad school is typically pretty voluntary. You would think that people who are taking grad classes would know what they were in for. Apparently some of them do not. Hopefully our group can work a little bit better now. We’re halfway through the summer semester!

    Oh, this weekend, I hit up Borders and got 5 books for about $20. Pure excitement! Maybe I’ll get to read a bit of them this weekend. One problem with the Metro being so crowded is I don’t get a seat and trying to hold up a book while being bumped my standing people while trying to hold on so you don’t fall over just doesn’t work very well.

    What are your plans for this weekend?

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    I found the perfect thing that I feel like doing to Metro after the horrible 1.5 weeks of commuter misery. Anyone seen this scene from the movie, “Officespace”? Yeah, I want to do this….